Friday 8 February 2013

good old days

sesungguhnya jalan ini penuh onak dan berduri
tanpa hamparan dan permaidani
penamatnya hanya mati

i really missed the good old days. true enough. its an addiction. once you have tasted it, you will never be able to forget the sweetness of it. and no matter what you will keep on trying to find that inner happiness again that makes your life complete. it makes your heart swell with happiness and contentment with every little good things.

true happiness is not about having what u want but wanting what you have, i read it somewhere,cant remember from whom

in short its about being thankful,qanaah, bersyukur,puas dengan yang sedikit

mashaAllah, sungguh Allah telah melimpahkan nikmat yang besar pada mereka yang Allah jadikan hati mereka itu hati2 yang sentiasa bersyukur..

masa mendengar ikim siang tadi, ustaz menceritakan bagaimana seorang hamba Allah yang hidupnya penuh kesusahan di dunia, tetapi dengan takdir Allah masuk syurga, setelah dia merasa nikmat syurga, apabila ditanya apakah engkau pernah merasa kesusahan.maka dia menjawab, sungguh aku tak pernah langsung merasa apa2 kesusahan. mashaAllah, dia boleh lupa segala keperitan didunia setelah merasa nikmat syurga yang tak  terbanding

dan seorang hamba yang hidup penuh nikmat di dunia, tetapi ditakdirkan Allah ke neraka, kerana dosa yg dilakukan,setelah merasa dasyatnya neraka, apabila ditanya apakah engkau pernah merasa nikmat? maka dia menjawab sungguh aku tak pernah merasa nikmat langsung. itulah keperitan neraka dan dasyatnya membuatkan manusia lupa segala macam nikmat yg pernah dinikmati di dunia dahulu..

dan nikmat Allah juga membuatkan manusia ini lama2 akan lupa kesedihan, penderitaan di bumi, so that they can go on.

but some people dont let go. they dwell on the hurt and pain. itu merosakkan hati, membinasakan jiwa. to forgive and forget is for your own benefit not to those who have hurt you.

everytime the painful memories came, ignore it and push it away. dont allow yourself to think about it, to feel the sorrow and pain once again as though it happened yesterday. there are so many good things in life

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do
not see the one which has been opened for us.- Helen Keller
 
the prophet says, forgive those who wrong you, give to those who with hold form you and keep relations with those who cut theirs with you.